Numero Uno

I like the feeling of no one bothering me; of saying things out loud and then laughing a short moment later, knowing no one can hear. I like that feeling of walking along in a crowd, headphones in, wondering what people are thinking of me. I like that I do my best thinking on the toilet, or in the shower, that I talk to myself and that every so often I laugh openly at my own joke on public transport. Obviously I like spending time on my own.. So shoot me! 

It's easy to go along with social obligations, attending this dinner and organizing that coffee date. But I'll share a bit of the ol' KCameron's secret guide book to staving off the W.M.'s... Just Say No. Seriously, who the hell wants to be busy every night of the week? (I swear to God, if you've just raised your hand...) Granted that some people 'are just social butterflies' ... but honestly? I would rather die than not have my down time. That's right, I would die. I would just die, (hyperbole intended).

 

Getting caught up in social obligation is one of the most deadly traps around our socially driven, driveling society. You can't say no to one dinner date if you've said yes to another, because God forbid Susie might hear you broke bread with Jackson instead of her... Sound familiar? That's because everyone today thinks that sharing time between friends is what you're supposed to do with evenings after work and or study. Wrong. Incorrect. Not true. What you're meant to do is go home, chuck on the God damn relaxing Norah Jones (don't kid yourself, we all love her) and just breathe easy for a moment or two. And after a glass of wine, or maybe three or four, figure out who you want to have a yarn with and do exactly that!

Trust me, if I'd rather go bra shopping and pick up a Merlot that just happened to be on special, instead of joining a gaggle of girls for dinner, I will do exactly that. And I'll tell them, too. Sometimes the best thing to say when the dreaded social obligation comes up is to tell the truth. 'No thanks, I don't want to.' 

Take a little time for Numero Uno. After all, we all need a little TLC from the quiet voice within. 

Wouldn't it be nice, to be True Blue?

True Blue, One and Only, Right as Rain, Sure as Sally. It always seems to me like the people who have it all figured out, are the people who can successfully apply these catch phrases to their lives. My Mother once said with an almost too wistful look on her face 'it's nice to be true blue, isn't it?' .... Sorry Mother, wouldn't know. But mind you, I wouldn't have picked the ol' TCameron for much of a true blue gal herself.

In a world that is constantly changing and rearranging, the only thing I seem to be certain of is uncertainty. There is no dappled, discredited unknown in my eyes. The only thing I know is the fact that I am AOK with pulling a blank slate. Seasons come and go, interests pass and fade away, talents get ignored and somewhere along the way relationships get built and fall by the wayside. Cynic? Who, me? Until recently I would have pegged myself as the disdainfully sober old man who only raised his head when he heard someone bitching and moaning about the old ball and chain. 'Relationships? Co-dependency? HA.' I would have said, had you asked me this time last year. But it's that time this year, and everyone knows that the Winter Messes are just around the corner. Who's to say that the Winter Messes can't be greeted with a good old case of the Winter Warms? A few couch cuddles. A couple hand brushes here and there, (God forbid I actually hold the thing.) Maybe this season it's time to greet the old with the new, and find something slightly more reasoned... 

Until I know for certain, I'll be calling myself Pallid Blue. Congratulations, Mother. It certainly is a step up from Charcoal Grey.

Lullaby

Eyelids lull,

Lashes soft as pussy willows.

 

Heart as fervent as it is certain

This is life.

This is purpose.

 

Wild brothers,

I, my rebel’s keep.

Winter Messes

Winter Messes, that's what I call them. The times where the sky is dark and the clothing is clinging and all you want to do is sit with a 3/4 full latte and a cigarette and have a royal bitch. About life. About the world. Depending on the trending topics on twitter, maybe CNN's latest grab at global warming.. or oh, I'm sorry, 'climate change'.

Winter messes, everyone knows them, and everyone becomes them. But come Spring, Summer and the early months of Autumn, I find myself looking back on the Winter Messes with some sort of sordid fondness. It wasn't so bad, sitting in the reclusive cafe with my best friend discussing the ins and outs of our lives. And the imagined community that we experienced between the first sip of the latte and the last drag of the cigarette seemed more comfortable than any relationship I had previously experienced. Things get messy, and I get messier. But at the end of the warmer months, I find myself begging back that messy haired, slightly sordid gal that darts through the darker months like they're back streets from her home town... Sans cigarette, of course. 

The Constant Student

When the sky is that color, we sit.

And old men do not deter the purity of our exchange.

Long black and flat white;

We match.

You over there and me over here.

Spinning, I grin, and from what I can see

You’re lost and found.

Gloria!

Exelcis!

Deo!

And there I am,

Learning everything.